I think this goes for a lot of people, but I canâ€™t be myself around guys I like a lot. Thereâ€™s the butterflies in my stomach, wondering what they think about you so far. And all that person will see is a nervous girl. The ironic part is, you could date someone who you are comfortable around, and maybe like significantly less, but the person I actually like will never see who I am. And that could be the reason I donâ€™t have the chance to talk to him.