Things That I Hate

Apologizing for Something I Didn't Do

I am not at fault. I have committed no crime. Why do you hassle me over a tiny thing that I didn't do? You also get angry because I don't apologize for it. If I apologize, that would mean I take the blame for someone else. That is lying. Even if I do apologize, will you still hassle me for lying?

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  1. Don't apologize, then, if you are truly not at fault.

    • by Jonathan
    • 2 May 2010, 8:41 AM
  2. Jonathan: Yeah...that doesn't work.

    • by Co-hater
    • 13 May 2010, 6:41 PM
  3. What doesn't work about it? If someone gets irrationally angry at me and blames me for things I did not do, they are not someone I want to be around, and I won't waste any further time attempting to please them, and I won't apologize for things I didn't do.

    • by Jonathan
    • 13 May 2010, 6:46 PM
  4. He's got a point there.

    • by Reabob
    • 15 May 2010, 9:14 PM
  5. I was thinking more on the lines of girlfriends. I will argue my case to the bitter end with a guy, but it's easier to just say "Yes dear" than deal with that which hell hath no fury like.

    • by Co-hater
    • 2 June 2010, 8:57 PM
  6. I wouldn't be interested in maintaining a long term relationship with someone who is frequently irrational.

    • by Jonathan
    • 2 June 2010, 9:06 PM

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